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Your Questions Answered

What time should I arrive?

5 mins prior to session start time is acceptable – please note if you are excessively early I may be getting ready or preparing for our sesson and will not allow admittance until your appointment time.

Are there shower facilities?

Yes – for use before/after your session (please advise if you require a shower prior to session start).

Can I pay in full before the day?

Of course! 

What happens if I do not / can not attend our appointment?

 If you give suitable notice I will consider rearranging an appointment with you (minimum 72hrs). No shows and no contact result in automatic blacklisting and you will be required to pay for any future bookings in full.

Is My Deposit Refundable / Added to Session Fee?

Your deposit is non refundable (not including remainder of session amount if you have paid in full), If for any reason the session is cancelled due to a problem from my end you will of course be offered the option to rebook for another date or receive a full refund. Your deposit is included as part of your tribute, for example if you pay a £75 deposit in advance and your session is £175 you need to bring £100 with you on the day.

What will my session entail?

You have the opportunity to express your likes/interests and experience on my application form and these will be taken into consideration. My sessions are tailored to each attendee… they are not scripted or ‘off the shelf’ experiences (how silly and contrived that would be).

I am not here to provide wank fodder for timewasting individuals who only see fit to engage me in conversations about their fantasies.

Why can’t I reach you on the phone?

I am an extremely busy Lady and more often than not taking sessions, filming, running events etc so please be patient – I can not take calls all of the time – in this case it is best to text or email Me. 

Do you do same day bookings?

On occasion yes – dependent on my diary and location

Do you have this, that or the other?

I have a vast array of equipment and tools including whips, canes, floggers, paddles, chastity, electrics, clamps, pinwheels, cock table, parachutes & weights, medical, petplay items, strap-on/cocks,bondage equipment, masks and so on (way too much to list!).

Can I extend my session on the day?

This could be a possibility but not guaranteed due to my diary and that of the dungeon.

I can’t be marked, is that a problem?

Many of my clients cannot be marked for a number of reasons – work, partner, going to the gym etc.

I understand fully and if this is a hard limit then please make sure you state it!

There are plenty of activities I can administer that will not leave marks.

Do you see girls?

Indeed I do.

Do you see couples?

Yes. I do request that I speak to both parties before any bookings.

Please read my session info thoroughly.

Do you mentor?

I do – please be aware that mentoring takes up my time, sharing and applying my skills so there is a fee involved.

What if I am owned submssive / slave?

Then you should seek express permission from your Owner – Master/Mistress – Dominant before even contacting me or being on this website! This is YOUR responsibility not mine – any subs found to be lying will instantly be dismissed.

Do I have to be submissive?

Actually no… you may be a masochist or kinkster seeking the enjoyment of S&M / fetish experiences without the Dominant/submissive element. You can express what you identify as on my application form.

Why do I need to tell you about my health?

It helps with identifying any associated risk – ie if you are diabetic and have an episode I want to know how best to deal with you and what contingencies you have in place.

If you have joint problems you will not want to be in the same position for an extended period of time especially if tied etc, etc.

It is for your benefit as well as mine.

What hygiene practices do you use?

All my equipment is wiped down before and after use with medical grade wipes that are used in hospitals and ambulances to eradicate bacteria, viruses and pathogens.

Plus anything that is used is also sterilised to maintain optimum cleanliness.

I use medical gloves (anal,needles etc) and condoms (strap-on/forced bi etc) where necessary.

Sterile lube is used for practices such as sounding.

Do you have a dresscode?

My sessions are generally conducted as CFNM – if you are a sissy, latex/leather wearer then this does not apply.

What will you be wearing?

Whatever I please! I have an extensive wardrobe… special requests may be considered.

Latex – Leather – PVC – Thigh High Boots – High Heels – Corsets – Steampunk / Victoriana – Wetlook – Lycra – Leggings – Catsuits – Fishnet – Hats – Uniforms 

Is it OK if I am a newbie?

Understandably you are apprehensive and just finding your feet but we all have to start somewhere… I enjoy initiating newbies into training as I shape and mould them into the perfect submissive / masochist.

Will we have time to talk prior / after our session?

Yes.

I always take time to reiterate the information you have given me and discuss anything else you would like to add. 

I always give enough time at the end of our session for you to wind down and return to normality,  have a glass of water or cup of tea and discuss your experience.

Can I appear in films with you?

Please apply via the correct page on my website Filming Slaves

Can I accompany you / or will you play with me at a club?

Yes this is normally a tribute of £100… Please be aware that this is not like a normal session and I will play with you as and when I see fit. There may also be other subs in attendance. Do not have any expectations of constant ‘play’ or attention.

You will be in my service to be used in whatever way I deem appropriate.

Can a ProDomme be lifestyle too?

Absolutely! I amongst many other Ladies am a prime example of this – BDSM is an integral part of my life and I have my own personal submissives as well as attend and support many events.

Can I be your personal submissive?

No!

Firstly, I am not currently seeking anyone and if I am it will be advertised.

The option may be given to those who have seen Me on a professional basis first.

If you loved what you do, wouldn’t you do it for free?

Try telling that to David Beckham or next time you need a plumber to fix your taps or mechanic to mend your car… 

I do what I love – sometimes I engage with others of my own volition outside of sessions.

This is my work, my life, my love.

What happens to my information?

Nothing… I keep it for future reference in my email inbox and that’s where it stays.